Communication around orgasms pt 2.

Are you communicating about orgasms with your partner?! (Both parties!)

Are you checking in to see if what you’re doing feels good? Are you reading the cues that your partner is giving you? If they’re moaning, are you changing things up or are you staying with what you’re doing? Are you asking them to show you what feels good for them?

And on the flip side of that, are you getting out of your own head and over your own insecurities in order to voice what you want and need in to have an orgasm?

Are you letting your partner know how to take you all the way to Pleasure Town (Yes, I just said Pleasure Town. 😂). When both parties find joy and sexiness from their partner’s pleasure, communicating is a big part of that process!

It doesn’t have to be some big awkward conversation.

Listen to cues… whisper it if you need to, or role play some teacher situations.

At the end of the day, if you want a healthy, fulfilling, fun and intimate sex life with your partner, you have to stop thinking they can read you mind and know your body the way you do.

No one can read minds.

And side note for the women…

If you can’t tell your sexual partner how to give you good oral that brings you to climax… then you shouldn’t be talking about it behind his back to your friends, social media groups and more.

If you want it better, teach him better.

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