I honestly never thought the day would come that I would have enough men in my life with this commonality to warrant writing this post; but I do.
So, what is the situation? Men with cocks big enough that they are getting body shamed by the people (mostly women) they have chosen to get into sexual encounters with.
This post is for you… who have the large members and have been dished out body shaming due to people’s inability to be respectful and kind.
And this post is also for you… the people (mostly females) who are body shaming others.
Each of our bodies is so unique, and none of them are perfect.
Even those of us who spend copious amounts of time in front of cameras, almost trying to prove to anyone and no one at the same time that we are in fact..perfect.
It is utter bull shit.
Men, please do not cease to see yourself as the beautiful piece of natural art that you are. Yes, it may be difficult to find a partner who has a body that was made to take you; but that doesn’t mean that they are not out there, nor does it mean that the rude remarks of others are your truths. If your body was made the way that it is, there is a body out there made just as unique as yours is.
While you are waiting for them to come along, invest in YOU! What does that healthy relationship look like? What are your needs/wants? How can you become the type of partner that you want? Work through your insecurities, jealousy, shame. Become steadfast in who you are and all the positives that you bring to the table.
Women who come into contact with men who are on the larger side of the dick scale, if you don’t think your body can handle it, that is perfectly fine. What is not ok is when you make someone else feel like their body is wrong. We as women are always on a platform of some kind screaming about how much the world body shames us at every turn, and yet do the same thing to each other and to men.
If you find yourself with great sexual chemistry with another human, and one thing leads to another; you’re naked faced by a body part that; makes you nervous, you are uncomfortable with, or turns you off. There are respectful and non harmful ways to go about ending the situation.
If you just don’t think his cock will fit in without damaging you but you still feel the chemistry then tell him that but let him know that you are willing and wanting to continue on with sexual play that doesn’t include his dick in your pussy.
If you want to end the situation, then respectfully say something along the lines of, “Oh my gosh, I was not expecting that. You have a beautiful and unique body, I just do not think that I can continue on. Thank you for understanding.”
At the end of the day we need to be able to embrace our fellow humans for being human! Body shaming is just as evil on a man’s body as it is on a woman’s… just as bad on non-binary, trans.
Can we all just agree that body shaming is something that is all around bad. We have enough trials and tribulations in life, can we please leave people’s bodies alone?
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