How much energy are you giving your partner?
When are your moments together?
In the mornings when you are both rushed to get the day started?
After a day at work, where everyone else has gotten your time, your energy, your attention?
Before bed, as your eyelids are drooping and you're ready to slip into slumber?
Too often when we get into long term relationships we fall into routine, we slide into comfortability, and we become complacent in our intention and action; I mean, we already did the work to get our partner, right?!
We expect the relationship and our partner to just be ok, survive, and actually flourish, like a cactus, with little effort and attention. Afterall, we work hard at our jobs each day, have to be a present parent, have health issues, goals we are trying to reach…
Then we wonder 'why'…
Why the distance between us?
Why the lack of sexual energy?
Why the miscommunication?
Why the lingering feeling of loneliness?
Relationships need care, they need attention, they need intention, they need action.
How do you set aside time and energy for your partner?
Do you need support on making an actionable plan to create intentional time with your partner?
Discretely reach me at 604.337.7127
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